Blogging + Bubbles.

December 12, 2011 · 8 comments

in life & love

The other night, I went to an event and made all kinds of great, new contacts–many of whom are either in the blogosphere or members of the local media. It was a relaxed environment. We were chatting and laughing over bubbly glasses of champagne and delicious, bite-sized hors d’oeuvres.

In conversation, it somehow came up that I write a blog. A few had visited the blog, read my content, etc. They had nothing but kind words to say about it. Of course, I thanked them. But I was thinking, “Gosh, I hope they don’t really read the content…”

This whole scenario has been playing on repeat in my head for several days now. For the first time since I started blogging, I wasn’t proud of my blog. It wasn’t because I don’t like the look (I love it) or because I don’t have great examples of my work here (I do). It has occurred to me that I’m not wildly proud of the content. What began as a more professional blog has transformed into a personal, lifestyle-type blog. My posts now include recipes, travel adventures and life updates.

And truthfully, I think I prefer this style of writing more so than PR-focused posts. It’s natural and heartfelt. It’s real.

Don’t get me wrong–I read tons of fabulous blogs by incredibly talented PR people, social media gurus and communication masterminds. And more often than not, I end up learning something new after reading them.

For me though, I’ve used this space as an outlet. A way to express my thoughts, life changes, career moves and relationships. And this has been the identity of my blog for a while now. So why wasn’t I prouder in that moment?

I guess the bigger question is–isn’t it okay that my blog’s identity has shifted? I’m not the same person I was when I wrote my first post. I’m older, wiser (I hope), in a different place, with a new job and an exciting life ahead of me. So it’s only natural that my voice has changed, right? Right.

From now on, I will stand proud of this hodgepodge, inconsistent space. Cheers to that!



  • Melissa Bennett

    I personally am very proud to know the young lady who writes this blog!  I think that people are more interested in knowing about YOU than they are about anything else!!!  LOVE YOU!!!  xoxo

  • http://twitter.com/nikkirap Nikki Rappaport

    I totally get where you’re coming from about your blog having multiple identities. But I say, embrace it. It helps paint a bigger, better picture of who you are. Don’t ever limit yourself! Gosh, it’s a great thing you’re not in the same place as when you started in 2009! And it’s fun to have a document of your growth and journey.

  • http://www.lauriesteiner.com Laurie Steiner

    I love the whole idea of “painting a bigger, better picture.” Writing a blog is such a great way to not only act as an outlet but to also help define and show your thoughts and opinions on a much broader scale. And I agree… SO HAPPY I’m not the same gal I was back in 2009, ha. Happy holidays!

  • http://www.lauriesteiner.com Laurie Steiner

    Thanks dear!

  • http://twitter.com/jvards Jennifer Varadi

    Love the blog and always have! Do it for YOU and nobody else! :)

  • http://peterdewolf.com/ Peter

    I’ve been blogging since the beginning of time, and I’ve learned that blogs decide what they’re going to be.  It’s best to just write what you feel like writing.

  • http://www.clickthegoodnews.com Amanda @ Click. The Good News

    Hmm..like 10 of your posts all came through on my google feed reader at one time!   Sounds like a great event & you can make your blog whatever you want- it’s most important to keep your voice!

  • Elizabeth Anderson

    I am approximately 10 million years late to comment on this post.  I love it, and just wrote a very similar post myself.  I had somehow morphed into a food blogger, and my lifestyle doesn’t allow me to do that “well” right now.  I don’t want to post a recipe if I don’t have a great photo.  And I’m never at home when the sun is still up – so natural light/pretty pictures just aren’t going to happen for me for a while.

    I gave myself permission to blog about what I want, when I want… and it was incredibly liberating.

    It was so great to meet you, and share some champagne.  Let’s do it again!

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